The Real Face of Adoption...
I want to talk about adoption for a minute.. not the wonderful experience of being chosen by birth parents and all the joys of taking your baby home... I'm talking about the sacrifice the birth mom makes. The sacrifice her whole family makes . So many times I'm told how amazing Jeff and I are for adopting and there is a lot of the time some negativity about the birth mom and birth family. I've adopted 6 children , with that there are 5 birth moms who never thought they'd be in the position of having to give their baby to another woman to raise. They did not want to do this.. they each loved their children. They each wished they where in a place to raise their children. I saw their hearts break .. not only theirs but their mothers also.. these woman are not selfish. They are not bad mothers. They are selfless and wonderful mothers- they chose to put their babies happiness and well being over their own. I've been blessed with amazing birth moms that for some reason...